{"id":271,"date":"2006-10-23T21:37:09","date_gmt":"2006-10-23T12:37:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/2006-10-23\/271"},"modified":"2006-10-23T21:37:09","modified_gmt":"2006-10-23T12:37:09","slug":"anthony-turns-four","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/2006-10-23\/271","title":{"rendered":"Anthony Turns Four"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n<div style='margin-bottom:30px' class='img_center'><a href=\"\/i\/_JEF022032.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/i\/_JEF022032_sm.jpg\" width=\"700\" height=\"559\"\nborder=\"0\"\nid=\"iJEF022032\"\nphotostream=\"anthony,misc\"\/><\/a><br\/><big>Anthony Turns Four<\/big><\/div>\n\n<p>Anthony turned four today.<\/p>\n\n<p>Due to a fluke with Fumie's schedule, <span class='nobr'>I made his<\/span> <a\nhref=\"\/blog\/2006-05-31\/198\">bento<\/a> this morning,\nfollowing simple but detailed instructions that Fumie had left. <span class='nobr'>The result<\/span> wasn't pretty, but <span class='nobr'>I judged<\/span> that it probably wouldn't kill him.<\/p>\n\n<p>Fumie and I both picked him up from preschool, and on the walk back to\nthe car <span class='nobr'>I asked<\/span> how the bento was. <span class='nobr'>His understated<\/span> reply was &#8220;<b>It\nwas okay; <span class='nobr'>I didn't<\/span> throw up.<\/b>&#8221; (He used the Japanese <i>ge<\/i>\nfor &#8220;throw up&#8221;)<\/p>\n\n<p>Now, there are a few things you should know about this: we ask how the\nbento was every day, and his answer is usually something enthusiastic along\nthe lines of &#8220;<b>it was <i>tasty<\/i><\/b>,&#8221; so the lukewarm\n&#8220;it was okay&#8221; is <span class='nobr'>a reflection<\/span> on my bento-making skills.\nHowever, the comment about throwing up is not <span class='nobr'>a back<\/span>-handed compliment\nabout my bento skills, but <span class='nobr'>a reference<\/span> to last Friday when he come down\nwith some kind of stomach ailment and spent most of the day throwing up. <span class='nobr'>He was fine<\/span> today.<\/p>\n\n<p>After picking him up, we headed for <span class='nobr'>a toy<\/span> store to let him pick out his\nown present. After searching for <span class='nobr'>a while,<\/span> he picked out <span class='nobr'>a big<\/span> garbage truck\nand hauled it to the register.<\/p>\n\n<div  style='margin: 20px auto' class='img_center'><a name='21949'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/i\/_JEF021949_sm.jpg\" width=\"700\" height=\"470\"\nborder=\"0\"\nid=\"iJEF021949\"\/><\/a><\/div>\n\n<p>In choosing this garbage truck, he passed up big fire trucks, large\nairport parking structures, helicopters, and other things that little boys\ngenerally go for. <span class='nobr'>But the choice<\/span> of <span class='nobr'>a garbage<\/span> truck is not that surprising\nconsidering his <a href=\"\/blog\/2005-09-23\/76\">track record\nfor choosing his own toy<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n<div style='margin-top: 20px; margin-bottom:30px' class='img_center'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/i\/_JEF021955_sm.jpg\" width=\"650\" height=\"420\"\nborder=\"0\"\nid=\"iJEF021955\"\nstyle=\"margin-bottom:5px\"\/><br\/>After hauling it home, he was <span class='nobr'>a bit<\/span> pooped<\/div>\n\n<div style='margin-top: 20px; margin-bottom:30px' class='img_center'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/i\/_JEF021967_sm.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"418\"\nborder=\"0\"\nid=\"iJEF021967\"\nstyle=\"margin-bottom:5px\"\/><br\/>But somehow opening it brought back his energy<\/div>\n\n<div style='margin-top: 20px; margin-bottom:30px' class='img_center'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/i\/_JEF021990_sm.jpg\" width=\"675\" height=\"469\"\nborder=\"0\"\nid=\"iJEF021990\"\nstyle=\"margin-bottom:5px\"\/><br\/>He played for hours<\/div>\n\n<p>When we lived in Cupertino, the trash company was Los Altos Garbage, so that's what <span class='nobr'>I see<\/span> when <span class='nobr'>I see<\/span> the &#8220;Lotos&#8221; on the side of the truck.<\/p>\n\n<div style='margin-top: 20px; margin-bottom:30px' class='img_center'><a href=\"\/i\/_JEF022024.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/i\/_JEF022024_sm.jpg\" width=\"700\" height=\"431\"\nborder=\"0\"\nid=\"iJEF022024\"\nstyle=\"margin-bottom:5px\"\/><\/a><br\/>He'd been looking forward to the cake for <span class='nobr'>a very<\/span> long time<\/div>\n\n<div style='margin-top: 20px; margin-bottom:30px' class='img_center'><a href=\"\/i\/_JEF022044.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/i\/_JEF022044_sm.jpg\" width=\"700\" height=\"472\"\nborder=\"0\"\nid=\"iJEF022044\"\nphotostream=\"anthony,misc\"\nstyle=\"margin-bottom:5px\"\/><\/a><br\/>Fumie taught him about making <span class='nobr'>a wish<\/span> before blowing out the candles<\/div>\n\n<p>He wanted to eat directly from the cake. <span class='nobr'>We certainly<\/span> wouldn't normally\nallow that, but it's his birthday, so why not?<\/p>\n\n<div style='margin: 20px auto'  class='img_center'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/i\/_JEF022064_sm.jpg\" width=\"600\" height=\"472\"\nborder=\"0\"\nid=\"iJEF022064\"\/><\/div>\n\n<p>It was a long day for him, and <span class='nobr'>I have<\/span> <span class='nobr'>a cold<\/span> (that <span class='nobr'>I probably<\/span> got from\nhim), so we'll open other presents tomorrow. His <a\nhref=\"\/blog\/2006-07-15\/211\">Aunt Natalie and Uncle\nAlan<\/a> sent <span class='nobr'>a package<\/span> that we're really looking forward to. (We haven't\ntold him yet, since he'd never be able to wait.)<\/p>\n\n<p>One other thing to mention is that yesterday he called me\n  &#8220;\u304a\u7236\u3055\u3093&#8221;\n\n(<i>otousan<\/i> - dad) for the first time. <span class='nobr'>For the most<\/span> part, he calls me\nthe English-only &#8220;Daddy&#8221; whether he's speaking English or\nJapanese, and sometimes &#8220;Papa,&#8221; which works fine in either\nlanguage. Most Japanese kids his age use &#8220;papa&#8221; or\n&#8220;otousan,&#8221; eventually using only the latter as they get older,\nbut for whatever reason he'd never used <i>otousan<\/i> with me. <span class='nobr'>We were making<\/span> pancakes and I'd given him the eggs and milk to mix, and he said\n&#8220;\u306d\u3001\u306d\u3001\u304a\u7236\u3055\u3093\u3001\u3053\u308c\u3067\u3044\u3044\uff1f&#8221; (&#8220;Hey Dad, is this\nokay?&#8221;)\n\n<\/p><p>\n\nIt really warmed my heart.\n\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Anthony turned four today.<\/p> <p>Due to a fluke with Fumie's schedule, I made his bento this morning, following simple but detailed instructions that Fumie had left. The result wasn't pretty, but I judged that it probably wouldn't kill him.<\/p> <p>Fumie and I both picked him up from preschool, and on the walk back to the car I asked how the bento was. 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