{"id":1280,"date":"2009-08-06T07:39:25","date_gmt":"2009-08-05T22:39:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/2009-08-06\/1280"},"modified":"2009-08-06T07:39:25","modified_gmt":"2009-08-05T22:39:25","slug":"basics-of-life-a-bit-of-real-appreciation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/2009-08-06\/1280","title":{"rendered":"Basics of Life: A Bit of Real Appreciation"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\n<div class='resize_warning' id='arw1280'>\n<b>NOTE<\/b>: Images with an <img class='raw' width='19' height='18' src='\/i\/s\/red_zoomup.gif'\/> icon next to them have been artificially shrunk to better fit your screen; click the icon to restore them, in place, to their regular size.\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class='ic tight'><a name=\"020744\" href=\"\/i\/JF7_020744.jpg\"\n><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/i\/JF7_020744_sm.jpg\" width=\"690\" height=\"459\"\nalt=\"God's Country my folks' backyard, looking back at the house -- Rootstown, Ohio, USA -- Copyright 2009 Jeffrey Friedl, https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/\"\nid=\"i020744\"\nphotostream=\"summer\"\ntitle=\"God's Country my folks' backyard, looking back at the house -- Rootstown, Ohio, USA -- Copyright 2009 Jeffrey Friedl, https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/\"\/><\/a>\n<br\/><span class=\"camera-info robots-nocontent\">Nikon D700 + Nikkor 24-70mm f\/2.8 @ 70 mm &mdash; <sup>1<\/sup><big>\/<\/big>2000 sec, <span class='f'>f<\/span>\/2.8, ISO 200 &mdash;\n<a href=\"\/imageinfo.cgi?url=http%3A%2F%2Fregex.info%2Fi%2FJF7_020744.jpg\">map &amp; image data<\/a> &mdash; <a href=\"\/blog\/proximity\/i\/JF7_020744.jpg\">nearby photos<\/a><\/span>\n<br\/><span class='caption'>God's Country<\/span>\n<br\/>my folks' backyard, looking back at the house\n<\/div>\n\n<p>Since <a href=\"\/blog\/2009-08-03\/1277\" class='quiet'>the\ntractor ride<\/a> the other day, Anthony has gotten to steer the small\nriding lawn mower while he sits on the seat in front of me and <span class='nobr'>I work<\/span> the\nfoot pedals. <span class='nobr'>As you might<\/span> imagine of <span class='nobr'>a six<\/span> year old, he can't get enough of\nit.<\/p>\n\n<p>As we were riding the mower around the lake this afternoon, <span class='nobr'>I was struck<\/span>, as <span class='nobr'>I often<\/span> am, by the beauty of the view, so <span class='nobr'>I stopped<\/span> the tractor.\nAnthony protested &#8220;<span class='nobr'>I want<\/span> to drive more&#8221;, but <span class='nobr'>I asked<\/span> him to appreciate the\nview. Kids take every good thing that comes their way for granted, but <span class='nobr'>I\nhope<\/span> he's old enough now at six to start to appreciate how lucky he is.<\/p>\n\n<div class='ic'><a name=\"020739\" href=\"\/i\/JF7_020739.jpg\"\n><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/i\/JF7_020739_sm.jpg\" width=\"690\" height=\"459\"\nalt=\"Appreciating the View -- Rootstown, Ohio, USA -- Copyright 2009 Jeffrey Friedl, https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/\"\nid=\"i020739\"\nphotostream=\"anthony\"\ntitle=\"Appreciating the View -- Rootstown, Ohio, USA -- Copyright 2009 Jeffrey Friedl, https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/\"\/><\/a>\n<br\/><span class=\"camera-info robots-nocontent\">Nikon D700 + Nikkor 24-70mm f\/2.8 @ 36 mm &mdash; <sup>1<\/sup><big>\/<\/big>400 sec, <span class='f'>f<\/span>\/6.3, ISO 220 &mdash;\n<a href=\"\/imageinfo.cgi?url=http%3A%2F%2Fregex.info%2Fi%2FJF7_020739.jpg\">map &amp; image data<\/a> &mdash; <a href=\"\/blog\/proximity\/i\/JF7_020739.jpg\">nearby photos<\/a><\/span>\n<br\/><span class='caption'>Appreciating the View<\/span>\n<\/div>\n\n<p>I explained that where we live in Kyoto is beautiful and wonderful in so\nmany respects, but that Grandma and Grandpa's place is beautiful and\nwonderful for so many completely different reasons &mdash; fields he can <a\nhref=\"\/blog\/2008-08-07\/902\" class='quiet'>run around<\/a>\nin, <a href=\"\/blog\/2009-08-03\/1277\" class='quiet'><span class='nobr'>a\ntractor<\/span> he can ride<\/a>, <span class='nobr'>a lake<\/span> for <a\nhref=\"\/blog\/2009-08-02\/1276\" class='quiet'>throwing\nrocks<\/a> and boat rides, fuzzy seed things floating by in the breeze that\ngrant you <span class='nobr'>a wish<\/span> if you catch them,\n<a href=\"\/blog\/2008-08-12\/907\"\nclass='quiet'>birds eating out of his hand<\/a> and lots of <a\nhref=\"\/blog\/2009-07-29\/1270\" class='quiet'>wild life<\/a>,\nlots of <a href=\"\/blog\/2007-08-16\/546\"\nclass='quiet'>nature<\/a> and <a\nhref=\"\/blog\/2007-07-23\/528\" class='quiet'>farms<\/a> and <a\nhref=\"\/blog\/2008-08-10\/905\" class='quiet'>pretty\ncountryside<\/a> &mdash; that he should be thankful that he can have these\nexperiences. Most of his classmates in Japan will probably never have them.<\/p>\n\n<p>He also has a Mommy and Daddy that love him very much, and who support\nhim having these experiences, and <span class='nobr'>a Grandma<\/span> and Grandpa who love him very\nmuch and support these experiences.... <span class='nobr'>a wonderful<\/span> life in Kyoto and <span class='nobr'>a\nwonderful<\/span> life in America.... <span class='nobr'>I just hope<\/span>, <span class='nobr'>I told him<\/span>, that he might\nappreciate just how lucky <span class='nobr'>a kid<\/span> he is.<\/p>\n\n<div class='ic'><a name=\"020769\" href=\"\/i\/JF7_020769.jpg\"\n><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/i\/JF7_020769_sm.jpg\" width=\"690\" height=\"459\"\nalt=\"Rootstown, Ohio, USA -- Copyright 2009 Jeffrey Friedl, https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/\"\nid=\"i020769\"\ntitle=\"Rootstown, Ohio, USA -- Copyright 2009 Jeffrey Friedl, https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/\"\/><\/a>\n<br\/><span class=\"camera-info robots-nocontent\">Nikon D700 + Nikkor 24-70mm f\/2.8 @ 24 mm &mdash; <sup>1<\/sup><big>\/<\/big>400 sec, <span class='f'>f<\/span>\/11, ISO 3600 &mdash;\n<a href=\"\/imageinfo.cgi?url=http%3A%2F%2Fregex.info%2Fi%2FJF7_020769.jpg\">map &amp; image data<\/a> &mdash; <a href=\"\/blog\/proximity\/i\/JF7_020769.jpg\">nearby photos<\/a><\/span>\n<\/div>\n\n<p>We sat there on the lawn mower, him half on my lap in front of me,\nenjoying the splendid view, watching the wind on the lake and the\noccasional fuzzy &#8220;Santa Clause&#8221; seed thing float by, listening to the birds\nand the rustling of the trees.<\/p>\n\n<p>For long minutes he sat there motionless and in silence, and <span class='nobr'>I let<\/span> him\nbe. After <span class='nobr'>a long<\/span> time &mdash; perhaps ten minutes of silence &mdash; he\nsilently folded his hands over the steering wheel and bent over and buried\nhis head on his hands. This whole time <span class='nobr'>I had<\/span> no idea what he was thinking,\nso <span class='nobr'>I suddenly<\/span> got worried that he was ill or crying or something, and asked\nhim whether he was okay.<\/p>\n\n<p><big>&#8220;<\/big><b>I'm saying Thank You to God.<\/b><big>&#8221;<\/big><\/p>\n\n<p class='subtle-less'>(Later, we continued driving, grabbed the camera at\nthe house, and returned to the same spot for these pictures by which we\ncould remember the experience.)<\/<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Since the tractor ride the other day, Anthony has gotten to steer the small riding lawn mower while he sits on the seat in front of me and I work the foot pedals. As you might imagine of a six year old, he can't get enough of it.<\/p> <p>As we were riding the mower around the lake this afternoon, I was struck, as I often am, by the beauty of the view, so I stopped the tractor. Anthony protested \"I want to drive more\", but I asked him to appreciate the view. Kids take every good thing that comes their [...]","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1280"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1280"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1280\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1280"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1280"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1280"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}