{"id":126,"date":"2006-01-04T22:14:15","date_gmt":"2006-01-04T13:14:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/2006-01-04\/126"},"modified":"2006-01-04T22:14:15","modified_gmt":"2006-01-04T13:14:15","slug":"why-why-oh-will-someone-please-tell-me-why","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/2006-01-04\/126","title":{"rendered":"Why, Why, oh, will someone please tell me <i>WHY?!!<\/i>"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<p>\n\nWe've been wondering when it would start, and <i>like <span class='nobr'>a switch<\/span><\/i> it\nstarted last week. <span class='nobr'>One day Anthony<\/span> just started asking &#8220;why&#8221; at any and\nevery chance.\n\n<\/p><p>\n\nHere's a representative conversation:\n\n<\/p>\n\n<table style=\"padding-left: 20px\" cellspacing=\"5\">\n<tr valign=\"top\"><td><b>Anthony<\/b>:<\/td><td><b>What are you eating?<\/b><\/td><\/tr>\n<tr valign=\"top\"><td>Daddy:<\/td><td>(some answer)<\/td><\/tr>\n<tr valign=\"top\"><td><b>Anthony<\/b>:<\/td><td><b>Why?<\/b><\/td><\/tr>\n<tr valign=\"top\"><td>Daddy:<\/td><td>Well, because it's dinner time and I'm hungry.<\/td><\/tr>\n<tr valign=\"top\"><td><b>Anthony<\/b>:<\/td><td><b>Why?<\/b><\/td><\/tr>\n<tr valign=\"top\"><td>Daddy:<\/td><td>Why is it dinner time or why am <span class='nobr'>I hungry<\/span>?<\/td><\/tr>\n<tr valign=\"top\"><td><b>Anthony<\/b>:<\/td><td><small>(thinks for <span class='nobr'>a bit<\/span>)<\/small><br\/><b>Why is it dinner time?<\/b><\/td><\/tr>\n<tr valign=\"top\"><td>Daddy:<\/td><td>Earlier we ate lunch, and now it's getting dark, and so now it's dinner time.<\/td><\/tr>\n<tr valign=\"top\"><td><b>Anthony<\/b>:<\/td><td><b>Why?<\/b><\/td><\/tr>\n<tr valign=\"top\"><td colspan=\"2\">.... continue <i>ad infinitum<\/i> ...<\/td><\/tr>\n<\/table>\n\n<p>\n\nWe're thrilled that he's curious and we try to answer as best we can, but\nindeed it does get on one's nerves during our weaker moments. I've found\nthat <span class='nobr'>I occasionally<\/span> resort to the &#8220;because <span class='nobr'>I said<\/span> so&#8221; answer (soon, I'm\nsure, to be shortened to just &#8220;because&#8221;) when he asks &#8220;Why?&#8221; to <span class='nobr'>a command.<\/span> <span class='nobr'>It's one thing<\/span> to answer <span class='nobr'>a question,<\/span> but <span class='nobr'>I don't<\/span> want to get into the habit\nof justifying parental orders to his satisfaction. (I'm probably being too\nuptight about it... we'll see).\n\n<\/p><p>\n\nIn any case, he generally actually listens to the answers (he can later\nrecall them), so it's wonderful that the sponge is actively trying to fill\nitself up. <span class='nobr'>I hope he<\/span> never loses the desire to understand. <span class='nobr'>I certainly<\/span> haven't yet.\n\n<\/p><p>\n\nInterestingly, I don't think I've yet heard this &#8220;why&#8221; phase\nyet in Japanese. Maybe because <span class='nobr'>I use<\/span> mostly English with him, or maybe his\n&#8220;Japanese brain&#8221; is in <span class='nobr'>a different<\/span> mode?\n\n<\/p><p>\n\n[Update: Fumie tells me that he does in Japanese as well... &#8220;\u306a\u3093\u3067\u3001\u306a\u3093\u3067\uff1f&#8221;]\n\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p> We've been wondering when it would start, and like a switch it started last week. One day Anthony just started asking \"why\" at any and every chance. <\/p><p> Here's a representative conversation: <\/p> <b>Anthony<\/b>:<b>What are you eating?<\/b> Daddy:(some answer) <b>Anthony<\/b>:<b>Why?<\/b> Daddy:Well, because it's dinner time and I'm hungry. <b>Anthony<\/b>:<b>Why?<\/b> Daddy:Why is it dinner time or why am I hungry? <b>Anthony<\/b>:(thinks for a bit)<b>Why is it dinner time?<\/b> Daddy:Earlier we ate lunch, and now it's getting dark, and so now it's dinner time. <b>Anthony<\/b>:<b>Why?<\/b> .... continue ad infinitum ... <p> We're thrilled that he's curious and we try to answer [...]","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/126"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=126"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/126\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=126"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=126"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/regex.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=126"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}